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		<title>By: Kim</title>
		<link>http://nancynall.com/2008/01/17/is-anybody-there/comment-page-1/#comment-151268</link>
		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jan 2008 15:47:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>MichaelG - maybe you could text her.

Actually, your nerves really say what I think is lost. There seems to be no apprehension about electronic communication, which has (somewhat) replaced face-to-face conversation. I&#039;m a huge fan of letters, and their diminished importance bothers me.

Facebook is going to wreck the whole 20th high school reunion thing. You know, you go out of morbid curiosity, having lost touch with most everyone over the years.  Everybody drinks too much, promises to stay in touch and doesn&#039;t.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>MichaelG — maybe you could text her.</p>
<p>Actually, your nerves really say what I think is lost. There seems to be no apprehension about electronic communication, which has (somewhat) replaced face-to-face conversation. I’m a huge fan of letters, and their diminished importance bothers me.</p>
<p>Facebook is going to wreck the whole 20th high school reunion thing. You know, you go out of morbid curiosity, having lost touch with most everyone over the years.  Everybody drinks too much, promises to stay in touch and doesn’t.</p>
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		<title>By: Adrianne</title>
		<link>http://nancynall.com/2008/01/17/is-anybody-there/comment-page-1/#comment-151267</link>
		<dc:creator>Adrianne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jan 2008 15:44:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>On lawyerly garb: The in-the-closet district attorney in these parts bans the female prosecutors in his office from wearing pants. Ridiculous. Today we ran a photo of the local women&#039;s bar association members hangin&#039; with Ruth Ginsberg, and most of them had Hillary-style black pantsuits on.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On lawyerly garb: The in-the-closet district attorney in these parts bans the female prosecutors in his office from wearing pants. Ridiculous. Today we ran a photo of the local women’s bar association members hangin’ with Ruth Ginsberg, and most of them had Hillary-style black pantsuits on.</p>
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		<title>By: Connie</title>
		<link>http://nancynall.com/2008/01/17/is-anybody-there/comment-page-1/#comment-151263</link>
		<dc:creator>Connie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jan 2008 15:18:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We had a few of those bio-hazard incidents in my library before we started blocking porn on the internet.

Brian, every library develops its own purchasing policy based on its analysis of and understanding of its community.  How to do that is something librarians study in grad school.  I can&#039;t justify Allen County&#039;s selection choices.  Want me to call Jeff Krull and ask him?

I will note that my library has the &quot;Joy of Gay Sex&quot; which contains very detailed drawings demonstrating the various um things discussed in the text.  I did have a complaint about it last year, and actually had to look at it.  Ick.

Every library also has a process whereby you can address your concerns with items in the collection. But over the years I have learned that one person&#039;s romance novel is another person&#039;s porn.  AKA pornography is in the eye of the beholder.

The majority of my complaints in recent years have related to homosexuality, including the lovely penguin picture book &quot;And Tango Makes Three.&quot;  If I were going to select a magazine (librarians call them periodicals :-)  ) with pictures of naked woman I would choose Playboy.  For the articles.  

I know this isn&#039;t a good answer to your question.  And I am not sure what to think about the fact that you AND Pam are talking about me in bed.  Hmm.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We had a few of those bio-hazard incidents in my library before we started blocking porn on the internet.</p>
<p>Brian, every library develops its own purchasing policy based on its analysis of and understanding of its community.  How to do that is something librarians study in grad school.  I can’t justify Allen County’s selection choices.  Want me to call Jeff Krull and ask him?</p>
<p>I will note that my library has the “Joy of Gay Sex” which contains very detailed drawings demonstrating the various um things discussed in the text.  I did have a complaint about it last year, and actually had to look at it.  Ick.</p>
<p>Every library also has a process whereby you can address your concerns with items in the collection. But over the years I have learned that one person’s romance novel is another person’s porn.  AKA pornography is in the eye of the beholder.</p>
<p>The majority of my complaints in recent years have related to homosexuality, including the lovely penguin picture book “And Tango Makes Three.”  If I were going to select a magazine (librarians call them periodicals <img src='http://nancynall.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />   ) with pictures of naked woman I would choose Playboy.  For the articles.  </p>
<p>I know this isn’t a good answer to your question.  And I am not sure what to think about the fact that you AND Pam are talking about me in bed.  Hmm.</p>
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		<title>By: brian stouder</title>
		<link>http://nancynall.com/2008/01/17/is-anybody-there/comment-page-1/#comment-151258</link>
		<dc:creator>brian stouder</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jan 2008 15:01:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It has the (unpromising) title 

Short Bus

http://www.wane.com/global/story.asp?s=7738102

We agreed we&#039;d have to look for that movie!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It has the (unpromising) title </p>
<p>Short Bus</p>
<p><a href="http://www.wane.com/global/story.asp?s=7738102" rel="nofollow">http://www.wane.com/global/story.asp?s=7738102</a></p>
<p>We agreed we’d have to look for that movie!</p>
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		<title>By: nancy</title>
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		<dc:creator>nancy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jan 2008 14:53:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So what was the movie? It&#039;s going to itch me all day if you don&#039;t tell us.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So what was the movie? It’s going to itch me all day if you don’t tell us.</p>
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		<title>By: brian stouder</title>
		<link>http://nancynall.com/2008/01/17/is-anybody-there/comment-page-1/#comment-151255</link>
		<dc:creator>brian stouder</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jan 2008 14:50:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Connie - you came up in a bit of pillow talk(!) between my lovely wife and I last night.

She told me about a story she had just seen on the news, about a fellow complaining to the Allen County Public Library about an NR rated movie he borrowed - which was (allegedly) pornographic. What struck Pam, though, was that the ACPL has Hustler and Penthouse and other type periodicals in the collection, and they&#039;ll lend them out! (you have to leave your license with them, though)

Seriously - I would think that that raises a bio-hazard issue, on the one hand (so to speak); and indeed - a procurement question, on the other. It isn&#039;t &quot;censorship&quot; to say &quot;We aren&#039;t adding this periodical to our collection&quot;....we wondered what rationale the library would have for procuring such a publication, and what sort of publication would NOT be procured by the library (that&#039;s when I said &quot;you should ask Connie on Nance&#039;s sight&quot;, and Pam said &quot;oh, uh huh&quot;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Connie — you came up in a bit of pillow talk(!) between my lovely wife and I last night.</p>
<p>She told me about a story she had just seen on the news, about a fellow complaining to the Allen County Public Library about an NR rated movie he borrowed — which was (allegedly) pornographic. What struck Pam, though, was that the ACPL has Hustler and Penthouse and other type periodicals in the collection, and they’ll lend them out! (you have to leave your license with them, though)</p>
<p>Seriously — I would think that that raises a bio-hazard issue, on the one hand (so to speak); and indeed — a procurement question, on the other. It isn’t “censorship” to say “We aren’t adding this periodical to our collection”.…we wondered what rationale the library would have for procuring such a publication, and what sort of publication would NOT be procured by the library (that’s when I said “you should ask Connie on Nance’s sight”, and Pam said “oh, uh huh”)</p>
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		<title>By: Connie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Connie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jan 2008 14:23:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Public libraries in this country are being overwhelmed by demand for internet access.  My favorite are the grandmothers who ask for help setting up an email account so they can keep in touch with a grandkid at college.  My pet peeve is younger people using the computers to &quot;chat&quot; with the person using the computer next to them.

My college kid leaves for Paris tomorrow.  It isn&#039;t fair.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Public libraries in this country are being overwhelmed by demand for internet access.  My favorite are the grandmothers who ask for help setting up an email account so they can keep in touch with a grandkid at college.  My pet peeve is younger people using the computers to “chat” with the person using the computer next to them.</p>
<p>My college kid leaves for Paris tomorrow.  It isn’t fair.</p>
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		<title>By: MichaelG</title>
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		<dc:creator>MichaelG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jan 2008 14:19:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I need to talk to my Ex about taxes.  It&#039;s a strange thing working up the courage to call a woman with whom I lived for almost 30 years.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I need to talk to my Ex about taxes.  It’s a strange thing working up the courage to call a woman with whom I lived for almost 30 years.</p>
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		<title>By: john c</title>
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		<dc:creator>john c</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jan 2008 13:38:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When I went away to college in 1980, I left behind a girlfriend a year younger than me and still in high school. We had been dating more or less for two years. But because we went to different schools (no girls allowed in mine, no boys in hers) we should probably only get credit for about six months. Anyway, I remember slogging all the way across campus in the chilly Boston autumn, shuffling down the stairs at McElroy and ducking into the post office to check my mailbox for a - let me see if I&#039;m remembering the technical term we used back then - letter. We both wrote some pretty tortured ones, I&#039;m sure. The truth of the matter, though, is that we both figured out pretty quickly that we were having lots of fun on our own. Neither of us had the guts to come out and say it. And we only talked in letters, or by phone maybe once a week. She was the one who dumped me, in the end. My point, I suppose, is that the feeling of separation we experienced does not exist anymore. Nowadays we would have been talking on the phone several times a day, and texting and e-mailing several more times a day. Different times. Somethings are better and some things are worse. But it&#039;s different, to be sure.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I went away to college in 1980, I left behind a girlfriend a year younger than me and still in high school. We had been dating more or less for two years. But because we went to different schools (no girls allowed in mine, no boys in hers) we should probably only get credit for about six months. Anyway, I remember slogging all the way across campus in the chilly Boston autumn, shuffling down the stairs at McElroy and ducking into the post office to check my mailbox for a — let me see if I’m remembering the technical term we used back then — letter. We both wrote some pretty tortured ones, I’m sure. The truth of the matter, though, is that we both figured out pretty quickly that we were having lots of fun on our own. Neither of us had the guts to come out and say it. And we only talked in letters, or by phone maybe once a week. She was the one who dumped me, in the end. My point, I suppose, is that the feeling of separation we experienced does not exist anymore. Nowadays we would have been talking on the phone several times a day, and texting and e-mailing several more times a day. Different times. Somethings are better and some things are worse. But it’s different, to be sure.</p>
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		<title>By: Jen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jan 2008 12:07:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My friends and I sometimes text or instant message people in the same room or the next room, but that&#039;s mainly because it&#039;s stupidly funny, not because we actually communicate that way. I think that technology has changed the way we communicate, but I don&#039;t think its necessarily a bad thing. I like being able to very easily and quickly keep in touch with my friends from college, most of whom are still in college or living in the Big City. I know I could call them or write a letter, but both are more time-consuming than just shooting off a quick email, so I end up communicating with them more. Plus, with Facebook I&#039;ve been able to keep tabs on people I knew in high school, which I like because I&#039;m nosy. I&#039;d still much rather sit down and talk to someone in person, though.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My friends and I sometimes text or instant message people in the same room or the next room, but that’s mainly because it’s stupidly funny, not because we actually communicate that way. I think that technology has changed the way we communicate, but I don’t think its necessarily a bad thing. I like being able to very easily and quickly keep in touch with my friends from college, most of whom are still in college or living in the Big City. I know I could call them or write a letter, but both are more time-consuming than just shooting off a quick email, so I end up communicating with them more. Plus, with Facebook I’ve been able to keep tabs on people I knew in high school, which I like because I’m nosy. I’d still much rather sit down and talk to someone in person, though.</p>
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