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Postcard II.

There’s a church here. You prob­a­bly have a church. If you’re like most Amer­i­cans, some­where in your church you hear the phrase “Father, son and Holy Spirit.” In church here, they say, “Organic, humane and sustainable.”

It’s sort of annoy­ing; I think food should nour­ish, not pol­ish your ego. But it makes for some tasty lunches. Yes­ter­day: Cheese from Cow­girl Cream­ery, bread from the Acme Bread Com­pany, sausage from some place next door, wine ditto, choco­late ditto. We ate it on the obser­va­tion deck over­look­ing the bay, out­side the Ferry Building:

(There was sup­posed to be a photo here, but like I said: Our inter­net con­nec­tion is spotty and imper­fect. Couldn’t upload to Flickr.)

I don’t mean to clog up your time with these updates, which aren’t that inter­est­ing. But I needed an entry to hang this bit of blog­gage on, which is worth click­ing through just to see the pic­ture: Inter­net sting nets ‘World’s Great­est Dad’.

Off to Mon­terey today.

67 responses to
“Postcard II.”

  1. leslie said on July 16th, 2008 at 12:28 pm

    Go to Sweet Elena’s Bak­ery in Sand City!

  2. coozledad said on July 16th, 2008 at 1:09 pm

    He prob­a­bly also has an “I sup­port law Enforce­ment” bumper­sticker on his car.

  3. LAMary said on July 16th, 2008 at 1:44 pm

    I know the food thing in SF is pretty obnox­ious. It’s like they invented sea­sonal pro­duce or some­thing. Come to LA. There’s plenty of pre­ten­tious­ness, but it can be dri­ven around. There’s a lot of pre­cious lit­tle food items, but luck­ily the short atten­tion span show biz types make the whole thing less serious.

  4. A Riley said on July 16th, 2008 at 2:03 pm

    Glad you’re enjoy­ing the ferry ter­mi­nal ter­races, Nancy! And the boat ride!

  5. Catherine said on July 16th, 2008 at 2:19 pm

    For all the pre­ten­tious­ness, it’s inter­est­ing that organic, humane & sus­tain­able fre­quently = yummy.

    Moe, what’s up with the jaw? Those of us who didn’t have to go to Urgent Care (today, that is) need to know.

  6. MichaelG said on July 16th, 2008 at 2:33 pm

    You’re right, LAMary that there’s a lot of stuff in the Bay Area to make your eyes roll. I guess you just kind of grow some thick skin against all the self absorbed nitwits after a while. Nancy men­tioned Acme bread for a rea­son. It’s heav­enly stuff and I’m lucky to be able to get it here.

  7. moe99 said on July 16th, 2008 at 3:05 pm

    Cather­ine – thanks for ask­ing. We went back across the water Tues (in my case, Lake Wash­ing­ton) to Belle­vue Group Health because the Urgent Care doc had ordered a fancy mandible xray on equip­ment that our Group Health facil­ity in Seat­tle did not have. We arrive, check in, and then are told 5 min­utes later that THIS Group Health also does not have the fancy xray machine for the xray that has been ordered, and they are going to have to make a spe­cial request to the Univ. of WA Den­tal School for an xray there and it should take a few days. I am thor­oughly irri­tated by now and my son is cring­ing telling me not to go postal on this, let’s just leave the facil­ity, but of course, how could I ful­fill my god given duty of embarass­ing him if I did not pur­sue this further?

    So I get on the cell phone and call his attend­ing physician’s office and talk to his nurse, say­ing some­thing like, “I’m sure you have some machine that can take and xray and give you a com­pe­tent result, I mean what did you do in the days before super xray machine any­way?” So the nurse talks to the attend­ing and he goes online and changes the order to a reg­u­lar xray, so we can get it done right now, not 3 days from now. Which we do and by the time we get back on the road, 2 – 3 hours has elapsed and we’re into rush hour traf­fic and it’s an hour to get home.

    But they just called 15 min­utes ago and youngest son is ok, no frac­ture. Hooray. He can fin­ish the last year of his sum­mer swim team on a high note – swim­ming in the final two meets.

    Thanks again for the interest.

  8. Dexter said on July 16th, 2008 at 3:15 pm

    Marina, Sea­side, Mon­terey, and New Mon­terey really are lame for a tourist, and the way they gen­tri­fied Can­nery Row left me cold, but at least they have the aquar­ium. Del Monte beach is bor­ing unless you hap­pen to love sea lions.
    Of course the thing to do in Mon­terey is to get to Carmel-by –the-Sea…it’s only 2 and a half miles from New Mon­terey, and it’s about the best place on the planet. Just walk the length of Carmel Beach, all the way to the end where directly above you hangs Peb­ble Beach golf course. It’s spir­i­tual.
    Pacific Grove is a nice peace­ful area, too, near the aquar­ium.
    Most tourists fork over big wampum to drive on 17 Mile Drive, and a lot of bicy­clists expe­ri­ence the flora unen­cum­bered by steel and glass cages. When I was there I didn’t see any bike-rent-stables, how­ever. Have fun!

  9. brian stouder said on July 16th, 2008 at 3:20 pm

    how could I ful­fill my god given duty of embarass­ing him if I did not pur­sue this further

    A GREAT story! Fine young son learns that per­sis­tence pays off, the uncer­tainty dis­ap­pears, the gray clouds lift and good news shines through — even as you get stuck in traffic.

    Truly, this sounds like a shin­ing par­ent­ing moment that will be fondly remem­bered in future crunches

  10. Catherine said on July 16th, 2008 at 3:28 pm

    Moe, glad to hear about the jaw. There’s noth­ing more mopey than a kid banned from his sport.

    What Dex­ter said about Carmel.

    And, Nancy, if you get that far south, how’s the smoke? I’m get­ting pan­icky emails about the upcom­ing fam­ily camp­ing trip to Big Sur.

  11. Dexter said on July 16th, 2008 at 3:48 pm

    I am going to be bold and sac­ri­le­gious here…SEVENTEEN MILE DRIVE IS A RIP-OFF!
    There, now I feel better.

  12. LAMary said on July 16th, 2008 at 4:53 pm

    I know what you mean, MichaelG. The food is really good and I’m glad that pizza no longer means nasty canned tomato sauce and rub­bery moz­zarella. I had a pizza with arugula the last time I was in SF that could bring tears to your eyes it was so good.

  13. LAMary said on July 16th, 2008 at 5:24 pm

  14. Dexter said on July 16th, 2008 at 5:53 pm

    LAMary…check out this story about Andy Dick..OMG!!

  15. LAMary said on July 16th, 2008 at 6:26 pm

    I saw that, yes. Swell guy.

  16. Sue said on July 16th, 2008 at 8:03 pm

    Re Helen Mir­ren: now we know what Queen Eliz­a­beth looks like in a bikini.

  17. Dexter said on July 16th, 2008 at 8:17 pm

    It keeps pop­ping back in my head…the ephemeral joy of being on Carmel Beach and watch­ing the lights of the houses slowly come on after the sun sets…those beau­ti­ful Carmel sunsets…I know it’s hard to do every­thing worth­while on a vaca­tion, but here’s hop­ing out host sees this.

  18. beb said on July 16th, 2008 at 10:03 pm

    Nancy wrote “I think food should nour­ish, not pol­ish your ego,” a view I heartily agree with. I some­times watch cook­ing shows on the Food Net­work and it always dri­ves me crazy when the host starts talk­ing about “plat­ing” a dish. Come on, just glop it on the plate. It’s going to be pre-digested mush in ten min­utes any­way! Now I love food that tastes good and fresh veg­eta­bles do taste bet­ter than canned (Sweet corn should be cooked and eaten within min­utes of being picked, for exam­ple), But why parsly on a plate when no one eats it?

    I’m glad that moe99’s son is OK. The trou­ble moe99 had get­ting an X-ray reminds me of the trou­ble my wife had get­ting a follow-up mam­mo­gram. It’s was bad enough that her doc­tor tells her “we’ve got a prob­lem, we need to look at this again…” but the first x-ray turned into a Con­sult, the sec­ond was can­celled because they said they couldn’t han­dle a women her size, then she was sent out to another Con­sult before finally get­ting the X-ray. This was a big health care sys­tem. You’d think they’d have the facil­i­ties they need — in depth!

    We should be thank­ful that we have insur­ance, at least.

    My wife has been talk­ing about a mother-daughter pil­grim­age to Grace­land this year. Yes­ter­day I asked her when they were going on the trip. “Tomor­row,” she says. So here it is, 24 hours later I’m hold­ing Bach­e­lor Hall. I’m totally disoriented.

  19. MichaelG said on July 16th, 2008 at 11:29 pm

    In Mon­terey go out to Point Pinos and pluck mus­sels off the rocks. Yum. Used to do that years ago when my brother in law lived there.

    LAMary, I saw those pix of Helen M. ear­lier. She looks even bet­ter than I do at 63.

  20. Hattie said on July 16th, 2008 at 11:38 pm

    SF was not always that way. I blame the Sum­mer of Love. And Alice Walker, who had the gall to open her restau­rant right down the street from my fam­ily home in Berke­ley. The whole neigh­bor­hood is now very fancy.
    Peo­ple warned you away from the Wharf, but that’s where a lot of the good restau­rants are, like Sco­mas. Seafood, big steaks, sour­dough French bread with lots of but­ter, all that kind of stuff.
    The Yup­pie aus­ter­ity diet has its points, but when I go out to eat, I want lots of meat, cream, and other calorific good­ies. And an elderly waiter, like the one we had last time we ate as Scoma’s, with a good line of pat­ter, always makes me feel at home.
    Oh, and don’t believe any­one who says to stay away from the tourist traps. In North­ern Cal­i­for­nia, that’s where all the fun and non-snobby stuff is.
    In your place, I’d go to the Board­walk in Santa Cruz.

  21. Hattie said on July 16th, 2008 at 11:43 pm

  22. del said on July 16th, 2008 at 11:55 pm

    You can pick on food snobs all you want because nobody likes them any­way. But good food is a sim­ple plea­sure that we should all enjoy.
    Many years ago I was act­ing as a wing­man for one of my younger broth­ers at a bar — he’s 10 years my junior. He was busy talk­ing to a cute 40-something divorcee who was about my age. I was kind of immune to their flir­ta­tious chat­ter until she started try­ing really hard and said, you know what … I’m a gourmet chef too.
    And the souf­fle began to rise. Rimshot. Good­night y’all!

  23. MichaelG said on July 17th, 2008 at 8:42 am

    Hat­tie, I used to live on Bonita between Rose and Vine. Lenny’s Meats, the Co-op, the Cheese Board, the very first Peets com­plete with Alfred, Coco­lat, Chez, Pig by the Tail, Lucky’s, Safe­way, Saul’s Deli, the places I’ve for­got­ten– all that stuff that made the neigh­bor­hood such a great place for food.

  24. brian stouder said on July 17th, 2008 at 9:02 am

    here’s an Old Fort Wayne tidbit -

    Archie McAr­dle died (81 yrs old) way out west.

    There was a time when that name was reviled, around here

  25. MichaelG said on July 17th, 2008 at 10:18 am

    Yes­ter­day my daugh­ter, son in law and the two kids went to DC to meet the Pres. It was the occa­sion of that annual tee ball thing although Dominic didn’t play. They got pix taken with the Pres and got fed and gen­er­ally had a good time. I didn’t get to talk with her much as it was late there and they were on the road from DC back to York­town. I should have pix in a day or so. My son in law (who is a career sol­dier) announced that he would be happy to go again next year unless there was a Demo­c­ra­tic pres­i­dent in the pale palace in which case he would decline. He’s a great guy but in some ways he’s a real numb nuts.

    Brian, I worked for IHC in their SF/Oakland branch when AA was in charge. From my per­spec­tive the whole oper­a­tion was poorly man­aged. I vis­ited Ft Wayne once for a fac­tory tour back in ought when­ever. Prob­a­bly around ’77.

  26. LAMary said on July 17th, 2008 at 10:44 am

    Alice Waters. Don’t blame Alice Walker for the whole twee foodie thing. I have to give props to Alice Waters even if she has to bear some of the blame. She has school kids grow­ing veg­eta­bles in school­yards. I did this with my sons’ ele­men­tary school for a cou­ple of years and it was really good. We cooked up soups and made sal­ads with what we grew.

  27. Howie said on July 17th, 2008 at 11:31 am

    James Moehrke — Be sure to post on how the golf tour­na­ment goes today — that is quite an accom­plish­ment on the part of your son. Also, what course is he play­ing? (Com­ing from a guy who has never bro­ken 90, but might be get­ting close)

  28. coozledad said on July 17th, 2008 at 11:58 am

    Speak­ing of food, we’re out of onions and I wanted to make pizza Majorca tonight. I guess I’ll just have to make do with onion pow­der.
    Any­one know of a veg­e­tar­ian sub­sti­tute for anchovies?

  29. Dorothy said on July 17th, 2008 at 1:20 pm

    Sue — if only the Queen were so lucky to look like Helen Mir­ren in a bikini!

  30. beb said on July 17th, 2008 at 1:20 pm

    coo­zledad asks: “Any­one know of a veg­e­tar­ian sub­sti­tute for anchovies?”

    uh…salt mixed in olive oil until it forms a paste?

  31. coozledad said on July 17th, 2008 at 1:31 pm

    beb: That’s just about what I was think­ing. Cook some egg­plant in too much olive oil, whirl with a sheet of nori and a half cup of salt, apply to pizza with cake nozzle.

  32. LAMary said on July 17th, 2008 at 2:06 pm

    I don’t like think­ing about the Queen in a bikini. I’ve pro­tected the in house Brit from this thread as I think it might dis­turb him.

  33. Dexter said on July 17th, 2008 at 3:00 pm

    MichaelG:
    I had a lot of fun at Point Pinos, too, wad­ing the tide­pools observ­ing anemone , starfish, crabs…best marine wildlife lessons I ever had. Thanks for the memory.

  34. caliban said on July 17th, 2008 at 3:09 pm

    Just back from the mar­ket. The unin­tended con­se­quence of turn­ing things over to ADM is that any sort of American-pr0edued cheese is so expen­sibe it makes me gogIle. I mean gog­gle, you know, with disnebelef.

    Any­body with a brain knows that corn is a net loser if you haven’t pegged your future on corn futures. Less than 1:1. Mis­ad­min­is­tra­tion and and oil field ser­vices com­pa­nies know for a fact that off-shore might mean six months 15 years down the line, Isn’t that worth embar­rass­ing Democ­rats with bull­shit with a sadly stu­pid electorate.

    Oil com­pa­nies have no rea­son­able expec­ta­tion of pipeline oil. In fact, oil com­pa­nies have no expec­ta­tion of any oil beofre 2028. If you’re con­fribted with peo­ple offer­ing pie in the sky, Could you act intelligently?

    We always get oil from off­shore drilling. It floats up. If peo­ple are this god­dam dumn,

    If you believe the soli­tary exec­u­tive can can the Con­sti­tu­tion, What coun­try do you you live in. Exec­u­tive priv­i­lege for Karl Rove? Are you jok­ing. He’s a dis­gust­ing per­sonal and polit­i­cal piese of shit. He never had anyy­thing to to do with any­thing that wasn’t purely polit­i­cal
    ..

    His claim is so rediculous.

    What we’be bot isKarl Rove is the most out­ra­geous liar.

    ge’s an amaz­ing lirs/.

  35. MichaelG said on July 17th, 2008 at 5:14 pm

    Jeez, C’dad, that sounds like a real gam­ble. Is the store really that far away? Don’t for­get you need onion too.

  36. coozledad said on July 17th, 2008 at 5:37 pm

    Yeah: Town’s 45 min­utes away. We’ve got plenty of fresh toma­toes and egg­plant in the gar­den. There’s chard, too, but I’ve never had pizza with chard. We done ate all the onions, dammit.

  37. joodyb said on July 17th, 2008 at 6:15 pm

    hat’s off to any folks who eat all the onions first.

  38. Catherine said on July 17th, 2008 at 6:54 pm

    Would it work to think of the chard as spinach? Maybe a nice calzone…

    I’m mak­ing farmer’s mar­ket beet salad with dill-mustard dress­ing and goat cheese. Too bad it’s not even 4:00 here yet.

  39. MichaelG said on July 17th, 2008 at 7:42 pm

    Chop the chard, saute briefly (very) in gar­lic and oil. I’ve got lots of toma­toes and chilis of sev­eral vari­eties but some crit­ter beat me to the egg­plant before it calved.

  40. basset said on July 17th, 2008 at 9:26 pm

    here in Ten­nessee, at least in my part of it, the cherry toma­toes are just com­ing in and the Bradleys are still green.

    Mir­ren… lookin’ good but she smokes, that can­cels every­thing else.

    took the boy off to overnight col­lege ori­en­ta­tion this morn­ing, right now I’m mainly try­ing real hard not to call his cel phone.

  41. Jeff (the mild-mannered one) said on July 17th, 2008 at 10:31 pm

    LAMary — “She has school kids grow­ing veg­eta­bles in school­yards. I did this with my sons’ ele­men­tary school for a cou­ple of years and it was really good. We cooked up soups and made sal­ads with what we grew.”

    For that rea­son alone, Alice is for­given all, even if i hope to never hear a server use the word “arti­sanal” again. (At the din­ers i fre­quent, it is at least a min­i­mal hazard.)

  42. moe99 said on July 18th, 2008 at 1:05 am

  43. brian stouder said on July 18th, 2008 at 10:06 am

    I’ll have to watch it this evening at home, but the com­ments are pretty funny.

    I sup­pose the com­pan­ion bit of absur­dity would be a talk about The Year of Liv­ing Greenly (or — Liv­ing as if the Earth is in the Balance)

  44. Sue said on July 18th, 2008 at 11:01 am

    Sigh. Nice to hear about all the lovely pro­duce every­one is growing/buying. It’s mid/almost late July, and I haven’t seen a sin­gle local corn stand yet. I’ve got very lit­tle in my gar­den, because so much had to be replanted after the late frosts and the floods that fol­lowed. Fore­cast this week­end? Poten­tial flood­ing rains. Par­don me…here it comes…GODDAMMIT.

  45. caliban said on July 18th, 2008 at 1:10 pm

    With regard to war crimes, DU is the new clus­ter. And any­body thinks they’re smart is a moron. These are weapons of mass destruc­tion. Using this shit kills Amer­i­can sol­diers, and it will be killing the newly-Democratized for years.

    Every­thing Dan Rather said is true. Every­thing the Swift Boat Liars said was a fab­ri­ca­tion. These are facts. Mur­ri­cans still believe the lat­ter and dis­count the for­mer. So god­dam stu­pid it’s painful.

    And these idiots vote. How does drop­ping bombs from 20,000 feet and killing peo­ple indis­c­rimantly, and get­ting shot down make you a hero? Wes­ley Clarke had this right. Being the guid­ing hand in Ket­ing Five, that’s price­less. But really, if he’d met the cunt first, he wouldn’t have had to nail all of those creepy financiers. The heiress should fear for her life.

  46. brian stouder said on July 18th, 2008 at 3:27 pm

    “Off to Mon­terey today”

    And speak­ing of Monterrey -

    http://​www​.msnbc​.msn​.com/​i​d​/​2​5​7​36798/

    Mex­i­can archae­ol­o­gists have found the remains of what appear to be four U.S. sol­diers who died in 1846 dur­ing the Mexican-American war, the gov­ern­ment announced on Thurs­day. Experts said skull and bone mea­sure­ments, as well as two half-dollar coins and other arti­facts found at the site of the Bat­tle of Mon­ter­rey in north­ern Mex­ico, indi­cate the bod­ies belong to U.S. war casualties.

    If a per­son finds his­tory to be dry and bor­ing, con­sider this pas­sage from the article:

    Mexico’s national archae­o­log­i­cal agency said the skele­tal remains were uncov­ered in digs between 1996 and April 2008 but were appar­ently not announced pre­vi­ously. The U.S. Embassy said it had no imme­di­ate information.

    A strange world we live in, yes?

  47. Sue said on July 18th, 2008 at 4:05 pm

    How would skull and bone mea­sure­ments indi­cate U.S. war casualties?

  48. moe99 said on July 18th, 2008 at 4:10 pm

    Dri­ving up to Seat­tle from Olympia after a hear­ing this am, an SUV passed me sport­ing a McCain sticker. Also on its back side was a sticker w/ a pic­ture of a very dark Obama that read: “Be afraid. BE VERY AFRAID”

    ready for the deluge?

  49. brian stouder said on July 18th, 2008 at 4:14 pm

    I was won­der­ing that, too, Sue.

    Even if the “aver­age” Amer­i­can man and the “aver­age” Mex­i­can man dif­fered in size by some per­cent­age, still that sounds like a slim reed upon which to hang a theory.

    Or maybe there is some other iden­ti­fi­able genetic dif­fer­ence between a per­son of with euro-roots, com­pared to cen­tral American?

  50. coozledad said on July 18th, 2008 at 4:15 pm

    Sue: I don’t know much about skele­tal remains, or how mea­sure­ments alone might dis­tin­guish eth­nic­ity (unless they were fac­tor­ing against more Native Amer­i­can skele­tal char­ac­ter­is­tics in the Mex­i­can sol­diers) but they can tell a lot about diet and dis­ease from even ancient remains.

  51. brian stouder said on July 18th, 2008 at 4:16 pm

    moe — it is known, where I work, that I’m an Obama guy…and it is not unusual for me to find copies of this or that op-ed piece, attack­ing Obama’s posi­tion on (you name it)

    But, what the hell — I’m enjoy­ing it! Bring ‘em on!

  52. moe99 said on July 18th, 2008 at 5:41 pm

    Brian – it’s the veiled racism that is get­ting to me.

  53. caliban said on July 18th, 2008 at 6:32 pm

    Serios ques­tion. Should some guy that said (then) 16 year old Chelsea Clin­ton was ugly because Janet Reno was her father be in the run­ning for Pres­i­dent? Aside from the facts extant, which would be that Chelsea’s fairly attrac­tive, earns a liv­ing and knows more about eco­nom­ics, the inter­nets and just about any­thing than John McCain does.

    I take Obama with a large grain of salt. I doubt he’d make high-profile fun of an inse­cure teenager in an unten­able posi­tion to raise funds from sim­i­larly sex­ist sym­pa­thists. Sex­ism? Obvi­ously on par with Rush. Creepy? You be the judge. Demo­graph­ics sug­gest he skews younger and richer. Homo­pho­bia? Holy crap.

    If not for his legacy sta­tus, W wouldn’t have been fly­ing sur­veil­lance for the OClub. If not for his legacy, McCain would have washed out for crash­ing so many planes. Incom­pe­tent pilot.

    As for W. Pick his ass up on Jan­u­ary 21, 2009, and make the lit­tle snot serve out his National Guard term. There have been mediocre, maybe bad, pres­i­dents before, but none of them has been pusil­lan­i­mous, false, inten­tion­ally stu­pid and obtuse. Nor so anti-democratic. Nor such a will­ing tool of peo­ple that don’t believe in any­thing in the Constitution.

    McCain’s Bush again alright. With Old­timers. Some bas­tard shot Bobby, this is as close as we’re going to get. Not close enough, but con­sider the options. Four more years? Your inter­net ser­vice will either be shut down or delayed while the Pret­zeldent reads your email.

  54. caliban said on July 18th, 2008 at 6:50 pm

    Pro­fil­ing is vile. In the first place, it rein­forces the idea that cops are seri­ously stu­pid white guys.

    Would a cau­ca­sion star of the Dal­las Cow­boys ever have been arrested? (I know Michael Irvin, but he let them share the blow and the hos.) I really meant Dee Brown:

    http://​query​.nytimes​.com/​g​s​t​/​f​u​l​l​p​a​g​e​.​h​t​m​l​?​r​e​s​=​9​D​0​C​E​1​D​7​1​1​3​8​F​9​3​6​A​2​5​7​5​6​C​0​A​9​6​795826

    What a heinous crim­i­nal. That’s the USA, to this day. Apartheid is a thing of the past, if Israe says so. But it’s con­doned, and it’s practiced.

  55. Joe Kobiela said on July 19th, 2008 at 8:18 am

    Brian and Sue,
    Per­haps the coins and other arti­facts helped make the I.D. on the sol­diers.
    Joe

  56. caliban said on July 19th, 2008 at 4:49 pm

    Is the reju­ve­na­tion attrib­ut­able to Chrissie? They let me go they were very para­noid. Hey Mr. Tam­bourine man. If this guy could win this, Tiger would be happy. That’s got to be one of his heroes. Yes to dance between the dia­mond sky with one hand wav­ing free. Of war and truth, the tryth just twists. These bas­tards are liars.

  57. caliban said on July 19th, 2008 at 5:00 pm

    What we think. It’s all right ma. You don’t get that you’re a moron. Though the mas­ters make the rules for the wise men and the fools, I’ve got noth­ing to to live up to. It’s alright ma.

  58. MichaelG said on July 19th, 2008 at 5:31 pm

    So Nance, are you attend­ing that Blogher conference?

  59. Jeff (the mild-mannered one) said on July 19th, 2008 at 6:56 pm

    (Chim­ing in from a lovely Hamp­ton Inn wifi) — hey, fam­ily can actu­ally be a pretty won­der­ful thing. We just helped my par­ents cel­e­brate their wed­ding on this date 50 years ago, after a first date eight months ear­lier to a Bears-Rams game at Wrigley Field (yes, Wrigley, which is where the Bears played until ’64 when they moved to Sol­dier Field, and how they got their name from the pre-existing Cub­bies). My mom said to her best friend after that “I’m never going out with that man again,” but she gave him a sec­ond chance, and he gave her a ring.

    My fam­ily can be pecu­liar and tur­bu­lent and infu­ri­at­ing, all of which i’m sure they say about me, but to get 100 folks together from the fur reaches of Iowa, Illi­nois, Ohio, and here to Indi­ana, and eat some ham salad and sing around some cake is a star­tlingly uplift­ing thing. Hur­rah to any cou­ple who sticks it out longer than their hon­ey­moon, and hooray for my par­ents who had four very dif­fer­ent but very sim­i­lar kids, and to all our cousins and shirt­tail, coat­tail, and nearly for­got­ten rela­tions who came together along with some nice elderly ladies from the church where we did it.

    And pray for me as i preach there tomor­row and try not to revert back to the eight year old they doubt­less still think of me as — it will be deeply weird in a totally won­der­ful way.

    Any­how, who­ever your fam­ily is, smile at them and mar­vel that we all can com­mu­ni­cate at all, let alone love each other, which it turns out we really do.

  60. del said on July 19th, 2008 at 11:43 pm

    I think you’ve got it Jeff.

  61. Gasman said on July 20th, 2008 at 2:05 am

    Jeff,
    Mazel Tov to your par­ents! 50 years is a great achieve­ment. It also gives my wife and I some­thing to aspire to.

  62. caliban said on July 20th, 2008 at 3:21 am

    Food should nour­ish. Food should enhance. Cook­ing well is a plea­sure. If some­body can tell me how organic makes food bet­ter, I’d like to hear it. Any idiot knows Archer Daniel has cre­ated a black hole in the Gulf, with chem­i­cal runoff. And now, they’re hit­ting the jack­pot with corn ethanol. That sits at a 7:1 on the energy expended, energy pro­duced score­card. Mean­while, cheese, a WIC sta­ple, goes through the roof. Why feed those cows when you can run those seven or eight SUVs that take Cheney to lie to the House of Rep­re­sen­ta­tives. If we’re going along like lem­mings on off­shore drilling, his prof­its on oil field ser­vices ought to be pay­ing the bill.

    These peo­ple are dreeps and con­ces­sionires. They’ve raped the gov­ern­ment for eight years. Four more with Mr. Keat­ing Five would seem a lit­tle exces­sive, even for these pirates.

  63. Jeff (the mild-mannered one) said on July 20th, 2008 at 8:05 am

    Organic makes food bet­ter by reduc­ing the amount of pre-ripeness, over­all “har­di­ness” and thick­ness of coat/skin/rind you breed for to have plants suit­able for long ship­ment after heavy treat­ment for pes­ti­cides and fungi­cides. A more nat­ural outer layer and more nat­u­rally ripe inte­rior flesh, not to men­tion the organic pref­er­ence for native or heir­loom strains, ver­sus the mono­cul­ture, pre-programmed “Round-Up Ready” trade­marked genetic brands, gets you bet­ter taste. I’m not afraid of most com­mer­i­cal GMO, i just know it doesn’t get you bet­ter tast­ing food, and i’m con­ser­v­a­tive about how much of the nation’s pro­duce i want to see trade­marked by species to a cor­po­ra­tion with a focus on quar­terly profit reports.

    Hey, i just fig­ured out how to get the Three Sis­ters (Native Amer­i­cans’ corn, beans, and squash) into my ser­mon this morn­ing. Thanks, Cal­iban … see y’all back in Ohio tomor­row, or just vir­tu­ally here.

  64. Julie Robinson said on July 20th, 2008 at 12:21 pm

    Con­grats to your folks, Jeff. It’s hard to believe, but next month will be our 29th, and that makes me feel really old. Nice that you could get together for a happy occa­sion – too often we only see extended fam­ily at funer­als. It’s been really good to have three months with my sis­ter, so in a way her med­ical prob­lems were a bless­ing. I couldn’t have jus­ti­fied giv­ing up my job and leav­ing the hubby hold­ing the bag for any­thing else. Of course, next time I’m hop­ing to come to south Florida in the win­ter rather than July!

  65. Jolene said on July 20th, 2008 at 2:16 pm

    Thanks for your story about your par­ents’ anniver­sary, Jeff. It brought to mind good mem­o­ries of the party we had for my par­ents on their fifti­eth – now twelve years ago. There was an open house in the town hall that attracted a cou­ple hun­dred peo­ple, a din­ner for 150 or so of their clos­est friends and, the next day, a fam­ily pic­nic attended by 75 of our rel­a­tives. So much was the prod­uct of not only a long life together, but a long life in one small town – the kind of place where every­one knew every­one – and the repro­duc­tive habits of rural peo­ple dur­ing the baby boom years. It really was a great occa­sion. To any­one think­ing about whether to have such a party, my advice is, “Have the party.”

  66. caliban said on July 20th, 2008 at 6:21 pm

    Maliki is no great shakes, but he’s not a mur­derer like Allawi, nor an out­right fraud like Cha­l­abi, the bsae­faced liar only W could love.

    But, you know, he’s the prim­in­ster (that’s a Rid­dley Walker ref­er­ence, and if you haven’t read it, has­ten to, it fits Iraq so well, what with min­ing DU and all.) So if he thinks Obama is mak­ing sense about get­ting the hell out of Dodge, he’s appar­ently got no prob­lems with the Demo nominee’s national secu­rity bona fides. He may not want it to sound like an endorse­ment, but he didn’t say any­thing good about 100 years and per­ma­nent bases.

    Maybe Iraq blows up into three coun­tries, one at per­ma­nent war with Turkey and the other two per­ma­nent Irani pup­pet states. If McCain knew the dif­fer­ence between Shia and Sunni, he might real­ize that wouldn’t be so ter­ri­ble. Brits and the US cre­ated Iraq from dis­parate and antag­o­nis­tic groups for the sake of Big Oil, and these things don’t ever work out well.

    In 2004 I thought Amer­i­can vot­ers weren’t a class of morons. It seemed incom­pre­hen­si­ble that enfran­chised cit­i­zens could be gulled by unmit­i­gated crap like W as not a draft dodger and Kerry as some sort of poseur elit­ist dilletante.This is so nuts, so patently phony, I fig­ured The Bard of Bal­ti­more would be proved wrong. But no, got it good and hard.

    Con­tem­plat­ing McCain‘s four more wars, um, years, the first thing that comes to mind is the truly revolt­ing slag­ging he got in our home state of SC from Rove and his vile hench­men. These days, I have to won­der what sort of manly man brown­noses a pure bas­tard that had push-robo-calls about your totally imag­i­nary bas­tard black child. Grov­el­ling isn’t pres­i­den­tial. Nutless.

    Wes­ley Clark got shot four times and directed his men to a tem­po­rary vic­tory. McCain rained down death and got shot down, prob­a­bly dis­obey­ing orders. Which one’s a more cred­i­ble war hero. Kerry pulled a wounded com­rade out of the MeKong, W made sure the Oclub was well-stocked. Where do these jerks get off?

    McCain’s whin­ing (thank you Rove clone Phil Gramm) about Obama and inter­na­tional stature is piti­ful. Obam’s bot the endorse­ment of the Prime Min­is­ter of our great ally in the bat­tle to spread democ­racy. If W could get Saudis to buy in, it might be more con­vinc­ingg. But there is no under­es­ti­mat­ing the stu­pid­ity of Amer­i­can vot­ers. Get­ting what you deserve can be brutal.

  67. Dorothy said on July 21st, 2008 at 7:02 am

    Con­grats to your folks, Jeff! I’m glad you got to cel­e­brate with them. In 1994 we had a big party for my folks, and it was great for their grand­chil­dren to wit­ness. Then ten years later we had a smaller scale party for their 60th. They had one more anniver­sary together before my dad passed away.

    Fam­ily get togeth­ers for such events are so much nicer than funer­als. We all got to enjoy each other on July 12th when my nephew got mar­ried in Pitts­burgh. Now the great-grandchildren are get­ting to see the fun fam­ily they were born into!