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The names of the dead.

I won­der if, in years to come, some bright scholar will name Maya Lin as the ful­crum upon which every­thing we believe about dying in ser­vice to one’s coun­try shifted. Lin, the designer of the Viet­nam Vet­er­ans Memo­r­ial in Wash­ing­ton, D.C., pulled off some­thing mag­i­cal and strange with her beau­ti­ful black wall, which before it was even built divided the vet­er­ans of that mis­be­got­ten exer­cise into two camps; one called it a “black ditch of shame,” and the other said, “I dunno, it’s got some­thing going for it. Let’s build it and see.”

The wall was built. The wall began attract­ing vis­i­tors. The wall became some­thing big­ger than itself. The wall became the most pop­u­lar mon­u­ment in Wash­ing­ton, and not just because the vet­er­ans of the war it memo­ri­al­ized were still alive. The wall became some­thing much big­ger than a war memo­r­ial. It’s a ther­apy ses­sion for every­one who sees it.

The black-ditch-of-shame crowd was flum­moxed, and insisted on tart­ing it up. A bunch of flags were added, and a sculp­ture of some sol­diers, and another sculp­ture of female ser­vice mem­bers, but some­one had to real­ize they’d been defeated. Who goes to the the Viet­nam Vet­er­ans Memo­r­ial to see the flags or the sculp­tures? They go to see the wall, and they want to see the wall because of the names.

Lots of war memo­ri­als fea­ture names. There was one in my home­town, an arch­way entrance to a pub­lic park, with bronze plaques on either side, with lists of local sol­diers who served, and one with those who died. My friends would some­times pick out a grand­fa­ther or uncle in the ser­vice list, but the killed-in-action side by def­i­n­i­tion left fewer sur­vivors to run their fin­gers over the letters.

But the Viet­nam wall names were dif­fer­ent. It was all the names, not just one town’s, and the bru­tal and ele­gant sim­plic­ity of their pre­sen­ta­tion — they’re etched in a time­line of when they died, start­ing in a trickle with the “mil­i­tary advi­sors” period of the war, swelling to a crescendo in the late ‘60s and taper­ing down again as we packed our belong­ings and took off from the roof of the embassy — under­lines the futil­ity and stu­pid­ity of the war. All those boys, sons and fathers, broth­ers and uncles, gone. For what? The wall asks a ques­tion. You pro­vide the answer. It’s why every­one who goes there cries.

Ever since, memo­ri­als of all types have included names, lists of names. It’s per­haps insult­ing to think memo­r­ial design­ers want a pop­u­lar site, but all those pic­tures through the years, of cry­ing sur­vivors at the Viet­nam wall touch­ing names, mak­ing rub­bings of names, watch­ing their own reflec­tions in that pol­ished gran­ite, the reflec­tions crossed by names — it has to be an influ­ence, and not just on design­ers. Look at the Okla­homa City memo­r­ial to the bomb­ing there. If the 9/11 memo­r­ial at the World Trade Cen­ter site is ever built, it too will include names. (Lin designed that one, too.) It’s no longer enough to lump the dead in one big num­ber, per­haps under the inscrip­tion Dulce et deco­rum est pro patria mori. Now you have to name every casualty.

Pres­i­dent Obama spoke yes­ter­day at Fort Hood, at a memo­r­ial ser­vice for the 13 peo­ple who died dur­ing the shoot­ings last week. I didn’t see it live, but I started see­ing the reac­tion online almost imme­di­ately. “Best speech ever” was the gen­eral tone, even from peo­ple who can be reli­ably counted on to hate every­thing the pres­i­dent says. I made a point of catch­ing it on C-SPAN later. It was a great speech, mas­ter­fully deliv­ered, but we’ve come to expect that of Obama, the first great ora­tor of the 21st cen­tury. But what spiked it deep in the brain were the names. Because there were 13 and not 300, he could give names and brief biographies:

Major Libardo Eduardo Car­aveo spoke lit­tle Eng­lish when he came to Amer­ica as a teenager. But he put him­self through col­lege, earned a PhD, and was help­ing com­bat units cope with the stress of deploy­ment. He is sur­vived by his wife, sons and step-daughters.

Staff Sergeant Justin DeCrow joined the Army right after high school, mar­ried his high school sweet­heart, and had served as a light wheeled mechanic and Satel­lite Com­mu­ni­ca­tions Oper­a­tor. He was known as an opti­mist, a men­tor, and a lov­ing hus­band and father.

The names, in this case, were not just a reflec­tion of today’s army, but of Amer­ica itself: Staff Sergeant Amy Krueger… Pri­vate First Class Kham Xiong… Pri­vate First Class Aaron Nemelka… Men, women, this one an Eagle Scout, that one an immi­grant, this one the daugh­ter of a father from Colom­bia and a Puerto Rican mother.

I don’t know how much of his own speech­writ­ing Obama can do any­more. I don’t really know how much he’s done since he began his run for the pres­i­dency. Good writ­ing takes time, for both thought and revi­sion, and time is some­thing he of all peo­ple is chron­i­cally short on. But I will say this: His speeches sound like they came from him, from what we know of his heart and mind, and I have to think he has a heav­ier hand in their craft­ing than some pre­vi­ous occu­pants of the office.

If noth­ing else, at the sub­con­scious level, that speech acknowl­edges what is becom­ing painfully obvi­ous about this inci­dent at Fort Hood: It was Viet­nam on a dif­fer­ent scale, a series of stu­pid deci­sions and a case of will­ful blind­ness, cul­mi­nat­ing in a mas­sive and unfor­giv­able loss of life. It demands an account­ing and a reck­on­ing, and we hope that will come later.

Until then, what we have are the names.

55 responses to
“The names of the dead.”

  1. Tori said on November 11th, 2009 at 11:58 am

    That was a beau­ti­ful piece of writ­ing. Thank you, Nancy.

    While I’m here, I want to thank the vet­er­ans for their ser­vice to our country.

  2. Peter said on November 11th, 2009 at 12:01 pm

    Well, as an archi­tect, you can guess what I think about Maya’s design and the thochkies placed around it as an after­thought. I think the best part of the design is how the memo­r­ial han­dles the names and in an abstract nature tells the nar­ra­tive of the war.

    For those who don’t know, Maya was a grad­u­ate archi­tec­ture stu­dent at Yale, and was enrolled in a course on ceme­tery and mon­u­ment design. The teacher found out about the com­pe­ti­tion, had every­one in class sub­mit an entry, and lo and behold, Maya won, beat­ing out, among oth­ers, her teacher.

    She’s done some nice stuff since, but she didn’t turn into the star­chi­tect that I had expected — you don’t really hear about her com­pared even to other female archi­tects like Zaha Hadid…

    As for Fort Hood — that was a great speech. As for the event itself, what sad­dens me is that in one sense the Army is like the Catholic Church in that they’re stretched way too thin — a nor­mal hos­pi­tal would have cashiered that nut­case a long time ago, but when you’re so low on resources, a crazy psy­chi­a­trist is bet­ter than no psy­chi­a­trist, just like a pedophile priest is bet­ter than none…

  3. Dorothy said on November 11th, 2009 at 12:05 pm

    A thank you from me as well to all the vet­er­ans today. I’ve been to two funer­als for WWII vets in the last five years. I imag­ine I won’t be to very many more.

    My daugh­ter sent me this link a few days ago and I just now remem­bered to go to it. She said in the sub­ject line of the email that it would make me cry, so I was try­ing to pur­posely steel myself so I would not. But she was right. It did. She saw it in the Post-Gazette, but of course they men­tion that it was orig­i­nally pub­lished in the NY Times.
    http://​post​-gazette​.com/​p​g​/​0​9​3​1​1​/​1​011693 – 314.stm

  4. LAMary said on November 11th, 2009 at 12:18 pm

    I’m glad Peggy Noo­nan isn’t writ­ing speeches for Obama.

  5. Julie Robinson said on November 11th, 2009 at 12:28 pm

    I was already in tears from Nancy’s fine piece and Dorothy’s link has com­pletely undone me. Both are great trib­utes to our ser­vices. Thank you.

  6. Jolene said on November 11th, 2009 at 12:57 pm

    This is a Pulitzer-worthy essay, Nance. Beau­ti­fully done.

  7. Sue said on November 11th, 2009 at 1:30 pm

  8. Jolene said on November 11th, 2009 at 1:35 pm

    Obama’s Vet­er­ans’ Day speech was another home­run. There may be a bet­ter link some­where later w/o all the junk lit­ter­ing up the screen. You’d think they could turn it off for 10 minutes.

  9. Jenflex said on November 11th, 2009 at 1:36 pm

    Ditto on the kudos…this is just beautiful.

  10. mark said on November 11th, 2009 at 1:37 pm

    Nice to be momen­tar­ily on the same page with every­one else. A very well-done piece, nancy. Good remarks by the pres­i­dent and well-delivered. I, too, think he stays pretty involved in the speech-writing.

    The wall is a remark­able memo­r­ial and it prob­a­bly frus­trates sub­se­quent designers/architects.

  11. Deggjr said on November 11th, 2009 at 1:46 pm

    Pearl Har­bor is another mov­ing memo­r­ial. Names are up on a wall on the Ari­zona and at some level they are dis­tant names. The vis­i­tors cen­ter had (has?) a per­sonal scrap­book on dis­play, show­ing the events from one life that ended with­out warn­ing on Decem­ber 7, 1941. Mul­ti­ply by 2,403.

  12. Jeff Borden said on November 11th, 2009 at 1:46 pm

    I honor my dad, who passed away in July 2008, and had spent three years in the prime of his young adult life as a sol­dier in the Big Red One, includ­ing a lengthy stint in occu­pied Ger­many. And my uncles on my mom’s side, who not only served in the Navy dur­ing World War II, but were recalled and taken from their fam­i­lies for Korea. And two my uncles on my dad’s side, includ­ing a Marine who fought on Tarawa and now bat­tles a stroke, and the other an Army Air Corps instructor.

    Every male on both sides of my fam­ily tree was involved in World War II. My mom’s youngest brother, just 17, ate prodi­gious amounts of banana and cream, believ­ing it would help him gain enough weight to join the Navy. (Appar­ently, it did.)

    And lastly, I do not for­get my grand­fa­thers and grand­moth­ers, who watched their sons enter the ser­vice. One of my prized pos­ses­sions is the tiny pocket bible my fra­ter­nal grand­mother gave to my dad, which is inscribed sim­ply, “Love always, Mom.” Or the women who endured the long, long days with­out word of their broth­ers and boyfriends, and who car­ried on with their lives under the weight of unknowing.

    I would hope that all of us, regard­less of age or pol­i­tics, make our­selves advo­cates for vet­er­ans. These men and women deserve far more than we often give them, as the scan­dalous sto­ries out of Wal­ter Reed a few years ago under­scored. This is espe­cially true for our all vol­un­teer armed forces, who make up only a tiny per­cent­age of our pop­u­la­tion yet bear so much of the burden.

  13. Jenine said on November 11th, 2009 at 1:52 pm

    Ha — Sue that happy dog made me cry too.

  14. Julie Robinson said on November 11th, 2009 at 1:55 pm

    Amen, brother Jeff.

  15. LAMary said on November 11th, 2009 at 2:09 pm

    That dog is doing what peo­ple feel inside.

  16. Pam said on November 11th, 2009 at 2:22 pm

    Pres­i­dent Obama’s chief speech­writer is a young man named Jon Favreau, who the cam­paign called a speech­writ­ing genius with an ear for Obama’s voice. Here’s a wiki link with info: http://​en​.wikipedia​.org/​w​i​k​i​/​J​o​n​_​F​a​v​r​e​a​u​_​(​s​p​e​e​c​h​writer)

    HBO is run­ning a spe­cial on the Obama cam­paign. While watch­ing, it struck me how dif­fi­cult it must be to be a speech­writer. But maybe it’s a lit­tle eas­ier when you’re writ­ing for a great speech giver.

  17. nancy said on November 11th, 2009 at 2:32 pm

    Speech­writ­ing can be insanely dif­fi­cult; it’s so much more than putting words in some­one else’s mouth, because if the words don’t sound like the person’s voice, the over­all effect is imme­di­ately ruined. It’s more like chan­nel­ing, and the fact Obama calls Favreau his mind-reader is telling, because that’s about how close you have to be.

    I heard an inter­view with one of Clinton’s speech­writ­ers, who wrote a book about it that I never read (“POTUS Speaks”). Clin­ton is another nat­ural, who once had his text incor­rectly installed in the Teleprompter, and still man­aged to talk for 40 min­utes with­out any­one notic­ing. (Imag­ine Dubya in such a quandary.) The guy said what made Clin­ton great to write for was his ency­clo­pe­dic knowl­edge of pub­lic pol­icy and gov­ern­ment, but mostly of reli­gious texts. Being a south­ern boy, he knew how to take a sin­gle Bible verse and preach from the hip on it at length. And because this is Clin­ton, at great length.

  18. Jolene said on November 11th, 2009 at 2:55 pm

    Here’s a short piece on how Obama writes his speeches. I’ve seen a num­ber of dis­cus­sions of this online, not all of them find­able at the moment, but they all make clear that Obama is very much in charge and very hands-on.

    I’ve some­times thought that Obama’s writer­li­ness accounts for why he is some­times less than flu­ent when not speak­ing from a pre­pared text. There haven’t been so many of these occa­sions lately, but, espe­cially dur­ing the debates in the pri­maries, there were lots of “uhs” and “ums” in his speech. He also tends to look away, rather than look­ing at the ques­tioner. In those instances, I think he is “writ­ing” a response on the inside of his skull, and what we are see­ing and hear­ing is a writer’s search for just the right words as he speaks.

  19. Jolene said on November 11th, 2009 at 3:09 pm

    Jeff: Thanks for your com­ments re your dad and your other rel­a­tives. My WWII vet­eran dad died this year, so I’m think­ing a lot about him this Vet­er­ans’ Day and, as you say, the peo­ple who wor­ried about him dur­ing the more than two years he was over­seas. Here’s how he looked dur­ing that time, and here’s a pas­sage from his obit­u­ary re his mil­i­tary service.

    As a sol­dier in the First Armored Divi­sion, he fought in North Africa and Italy, serv­ing for a time as the gun­ner in his battalion’s Com­mand Tank. On May 6, 1943, the tank was hit by an anti-tank shell, and Mr. Galegher and his colonel, Henry Gar­diner, were the only sur­vivors. For wounds he suf­fered in this inci­dent, Mr. Galegher was awarded a Pur­ple Heart. He was dis­charged in Sep­tem­ber, 1945, hav­ing spent three years, 11 months, and 19 days in the mil­i­tary — a times­pan he men­tioned on more than one occa­sion. Like many vet­er­ans of his gen­er­a­tion, he almost never spoke of the hor­rors of war, but was proud of his ser­vice and deeply attached to the Army bud­dies who served with him.

    As we’ve gone through his things, I was able to read the let­ters he wrote home. They were mainly very plain state­ments, but they revealed so much: how much let­ters from from home meant to him, how won­der­ful it was to expe­ri­ence the rare crea­ture com­fort (e.g., a shower), how much he cared for the peo­ple he was with.

    We also found tiny B&W pic­tures that my grand­mother had sent to him – all of peo­ple and things going on at the farm. A new dog, chick­ens in the yard on a warm, win­ter day, spring flood­ing, his own grand­mother. “Looks good for nearly ninty, doesn’t she?” was my grandmother’s inscrip­tion on that one. You didn’t have to think very long to get a sense of a mother striv­ing might­ily to keep her far­away son con­nected to her­self and home.

  20. Dexter said on November 11th, 2009 at 3:12 pm

    Thanks for the topic and the blog post. Excel­lent.
    Dex­ter, pre­sente. We went to Applebee’s in Defi­ance where I sat with my wife at a table, nod­ding at strangers in salute when our shift­ing eyes met from across the room, as the restau­rant is pro­vid­ing a free entree to all vet­er­ans today.
    I usu­ally remove all head­gear in a restau­rant but today I and most of the other men left our caps on. Mine has the iron cross VFW design, and a flag pin and some other do-dads pinned on it. Other men wore their per­son­al­ized caps, too.
    I didn’t see any women vets wear­ing any iden­ti­fy­ing trib­utes , but no mat­ter.
    It eerily reminded me of two other times, one was when I saw Oliver Stone’s “Pla­toon” on a Sat­ur­day mati­nee and it seemed the the­ater was filled with vets like me, strangers, nod­ding in acknowl­edg­ment to each other in the the­ater lobby, not say­ing a damn thing…and also when I walked around the vet­er­ans’ trib­ute mon­u­ments in Indi­anapo­lis about 10 years ago. Same thing.

    I went to the Wall in D.C. the sum­mer after it opened. I had gath­ered up a bag full of stuff I had brought back from Viet­nam and I left it at the Wall: some piasters… paper and coins, some pho­tos, a pair of tire-soled san­dals, and some other junk. I had my par­ents, my daugh­ter and my niece with me. It was a hel­luva thing, beyond descrip­tion really, to see and expe­ri­ence that Wall. As we descended down towards the 1960’s sec­tion, Dad told the oth­ers it was time to go and leave me to myself for a while. I had every inten­tion of doing some name-tracing but instead I just became lost in mem­o­ries and sort of glided past and through with all the other tourists. It was a mind-fuck that I know will not be dupli­cated for me, ever.
    I also don’t know how it may or may not affect peo­ple that did not go to that war or who did not live through that period of US his­tory that was so divi­sive, but all I know is that as a mon­u­ment, it works.

  21. Jolene said on November 11th, 2009 at 3:23 pm

    One more thing and then I’ll be quiet: Nancy’s ref­er­ence to Clin­ton, prompts me to link to one of my favorite Clin­ton speeches, a cam­paign speech given on behalf of Jim Webb dur­ing his 2006 cam­paign for the Sen­ate, which, as you may recall, gave rise to George Allen’s “macaca moment”.

    Clinton’s Elec­tion Eve speech is a rhetor­i­cal tour de force, rang­ing from points in which he draws a laugh from the audi­ence by lam­poon­ing Repub­li­can ideas, but then says, “We laugh, but it ain’t funny” to the end at which point he quotes the “our lives, our for­tunes, and our sacred honor” phrase from the Dec­la­ra­tion of Inde­pen­dence. That’s quite a leap from “it ain’t funny”, but Clin­ton is nat­ural and com­pelling the whole way through.

  22. Deborah said on November 11th, 2009 at 3:25 pm

    I haven’t read all of the com­ments yet, but imme­di­ately felt com­pelled to tell you Nancy, what a fine, fine post this is. My hus­band is both an archi­tect and a Viet­nam vet, we think the memo­r­ial is a true mas­ter­piece. I haven’t yet heard or read Obama’s Fort Hood speech and can’t wait to do so now that I have read your post. Nancy, thanks for writ­ing this.

  23. Jean S said on November 11th, 2009 at 3:48 pm

    oh, the Wall, the Wall…a tough place to go, but so important.

    and what Jeff said. We have my father-in-law’s let­ters home. I don’t think my hus­band has ever read them. Too hard.

  24. Julie Robinson said on November 11th, 2009 at 3:53 pm

    Dex­ter, the wall worked pow­er­fully for me and I didn’t know any of the names up there. It was a stun­ning and vis­ceral blow to the gut and I was sob­bing the whole time we were there. It affected me like no other memo­r­ial I’ve been to.

  25. Jeff Borden said on November 11th, 2009 at 3:57 pm

    Jolene,

    The father of one of my pals back in Ohio was in the First Armored, so I know your dad went to hell and back. Those guys saw a lot of bru­tal action. I can’t imag­ine the fears that would flood a nor­mal man who is cramped inside a tank, which for all its armor is a hand­some tar­get to the enemy, and rum­ble into bat­tle. And they did it largely with­out complaint.

    My dad, like yours, gen­er­ally refused to talk about the war. He main­tained a mem­ber­ship in an Amer­i­can Legion post, but never vis­ited, largely because he did not want to be reminded. He came close to being killed or cap­tured in the Bat­tle of the Bulge, and went to his grave wish­ing he had been able to thank the Bel­gian fam­ily that hid him when he was cut off from his unit and Nazi troops were search­ing high and low. I feel remiss now for not hav­ing been clever enough to have found that fam­ily, or its descen­dants, but all we know was that the man was a baker and they lived near Bruges.

    I kept my stu­dent defer­ment dur­ing Viet­nam and the draft had ended by the time I grad­u­ated. I’m not proud of that fact, know­ing that other men and boys with­out the finan­cial resources to stay in col­lege may have gone in my place. But I have kept one promise to myself, which is to always acknowl­edge the courage and sac­ri­fice of those who have served in all our wars, and to be fru­gal in my sup­port for other wars. Watch­ing the col­lec­tion of loud-mouthed chick­en­hawks in D.C. dur­ing the run-up to the Iraq War –led by Dick “Five Defer­ments” Cheney– only cemented my belief that we who did not serve should keep our frick­ing traps shut most of the time when it comes to send­ing the sons and daugh­ters of our nation into harm’s way.

  26. Sue said on November 11th, 2009 at 4:16 pm

    Well, since we’re get­ting all seri­ous here…
    Kudos to those spouses who stick with the changed and dam­aged peo­ple who come back from the wars. Cheers to those who learn exactly how to wake up a spouse from a night­mare with­out get­ting injured them­selves. Salutes to the ones who stay in spite of the alco­hol, fights and gen­eral bleak­ness. Courage to those who don’t leave even when it becomes appar­ent that the hos­pi­tal­iza­tion didn’t work.
    Solace to those who have to get out for their san­ity and/or safety.
    And my God, my God, bless­ings on all the kids along for the ride.
    Damn, we deserve our own free meal at Applebee’s.

  27. Jeff Borden said on November 11th, 2009 at 4:21 pm

    Sue,

    You speak great truth beautifully.

    One of the most poignant photo essays I’ve ever seen was about the young Marine who was hor­ri­bly man­gled and burned in an unar­mored Humvee in Iraq. His face mostly had melted away, but there he was in dress blues beside his bride in her lovely white dress when back in the States.

    I no longer have the words to express the con­tempt I feel for the bas­tards who ginned up the war in Iraq, ignored the expert tes­ti­mony of real mil­i­tary men who argued for more troops, and send these men and women over­seas with­out the proper equip­ment. A life of hard labor in a max­i­mum secu­rity prison would be too good for them, yet many are writ­ing books and col­lect­ing fat speaker’s fees for mean­ing­less speeches. Damn them all to hell.

  28. Jolene said on November 11th, 2009 at 4:43 pm

    John Kelly had a good col­umn in today’s WaPo re mil­i­tary spouses. Not about stick­ing by the sick and injured, but stick­ing by, nonethe­less. But your point is pow­er­ful and pow­er­fully expressed, Sue.

    Through read­ing Tom Ricks, who has writ­ten two of the best books on the Iraq War, I learned about The Yllescas Fam­ily, which is a blog writ­ten by a woman whose hus­band was severely injured in Iraq and even­tu­ally died at Wal­ter Reed. I hadn’t looked at it for quite a while, but Ricks called atten­tion to it again recently on the first anniver­sary of her his death. You can’t read it all at once, but you don’t have to spend much time with it, to be for­ever unable to put it out of your mind – mainly because it con­tains so much detail about what it means to lose some­one in this way.

    Some of the pieces I’ve read about Fort Hood in the wake of the shoot­ing have been dev­as­tat­ing in terms of what’s hap­pen­ing there w/ peo­ple who’ve come back. One chap­lain said some­thing along the lines of, “I have some sol­dier shout­ing at his wife in my apart­ment every night.”

  29. Jeff (the mild-mannered one) said on November 11th, 2009 at 4:58 pm

    Maya Lin appears to think of her­self as almost more of an artist than an archi­tect, so she hasn’t star­chi­tected her­self into a pile of mar­gin­ally usable build­ings. She found a way to express an artis­tic vision through pub­lic memo­ri­als and land­scape sculp­ture that serves a com­mu­nal pur­pose, but she will likely spend her entire career framed by her first major work … which isn’t too bad a prob­lem, imho.

    The vets i know best refer to the adden­dum stat­u­ary at the Viet­nam Memo­r­ial as “The Twi­light Zone” guys; some mean it in a good way, most less so, but their take is that the look on their faces is best described as hav­ing walked through a por­tal in space-time from the Mekong delta into the Mall, and are now look­ing at their aging bud­dies stand­ing along a black wall cov­ered with names … includ­ing their own? And they’re not quite ready to step for­ward and look.

    Each of my last few vis­its i’ve tried to assess my own feel­ing about the stat­u­ary group, and it kind of works in that light, but i’ll let those who were there make the final call.

    It just hap­pened that at 11 am i was walk­ing through an open­ing in a vast, 2,000 year old Native Amer­i­can earth­work with 32 kids and 2 teach­ers. We stopped a moment, and as nearby bells ran faintly through the nod­ding, bar­ren tree­tops, i told them about the 76th Ohio Vol­un­teer Infantry, that used this enclo­sure as their train­ing ground for two months in 1861, then walked past where we stood to board trains for the Cum­ber­land Val­ley and on towards Vicks­burg and Atlanta.

    And i told them of the reunion after the Grand Review in Wash­ing­ton in May of 1865, when only 350 of the 900 returned home. We had our moment of silent respect for them all, and then the kids ran onwards through the piled leaves, head­ing for the next mound and marker, eager for lunch.

    Regards to all who have served, in what­ever role (or whichever century).

  30. moe99 said on November 11th, 2009 at 5:36 pm

    Won­der­ful post, Nancy. Truly inspi­ra­tional. Thank you so much.

  31. Dexter said on November 11th, 2009 at 5:47 pm

    Jeff Bor­den and Sue, you both have touched me with your lat­est com­ments.
    Only eco­nom­ics kept me out of my fresh­man col­lege year, and I was drafted before I could earn tuition dough, and we just didn’t pur­sue loans then…I read how the classes at Bowl­ing Green in the Fall of 1967 spilled out into hall­ways, as all male kids were in school that could pos­si­bly find a way, to evade the draft.
    Some friends think that well, at least I have col­or­ful mem­o­ries of those times, com­pared to their rou­tines of classes and keg­gers. I just know this: I knew the score then and I know the score now, and that’s what hap­pened and it all worked out, and I never held a grudge against any col­lege kids,and I know I didn’t go in their place. And I got to go to col­lege for a while any­way on the puny GI Bill.
    Sue, you are right. They also serve who stay behind. No doubt.
    Book of the day…
    http://​tinyurl​.com/​y​je4ra9
    …alter­nat­ing nar­ra­tive of hap­pen­ings in Viet­nam and also UW Madi­son. Great book.

  32. Dexter said on November 11th, 2009 at 5:52 pm

  33. crinoidgirl said on November 11th, 2009 at 6:22 pm

    Yes, won­der­ful post, Nancy.

    And thank you for the book link, Dex­ter. I’ve ordered it from the library. I was 13 then, but that year’s still vivid.

  34. Jeff Borden said on November 11th, 2009 at 6:34 pm

    Dex­ter,

    Thanks. You know, my dad used to chide me that I’d never have seen com­bat because I knew how to type. He fig­ured I’d be in some tent or trailer some­where, churn­ing out the paper that makes the Army move. After all those years, though, I still feel guilty.

    I wish our nation had learned a les­son from Viet­nam. Clearly, we did not. And now Obama, who ran as an oppo­nent of the Iraq war, con­fronts a sit­u­a­tion in Afghanistan that might become to him what Viet­nam became to LBJ.

    Let’s pray there is a good end­ing to this, but I’m not all that optimistic.

  35. moe99 said on November 11th, 2009 at 6:51 pm

    btw, Sarah Palin’s book tour takes her through the heart­land start­ing with Grand Rapids, MI Nov. 18.

    http://​firstread​.msnbc​.msn​.com/​a​r​c​h​i​v​e​/​2​0​0​9​/​1​1​/​1​1​/​2​1​2​4​4​7​1.aspx

  36. Julie Robinson said on November 11th, 2009 at 6:56 pm

    And on the very next day she will be sign­ing books where I ususally do the gro­cery shop­ping. Maybe I need to find a dif­fer­ent store?

  37. Jeff Borden said on November 11th, 2009 at 7:05 pm

    Re: Our Lady of Wasilla, Time has a report based on a few copies of the book that have been given to St. Sarah’s asso­ciates. They note it is 400 pages long, but only five chapters.

    There are five major thrusts includ­ing how her child­hood shaped her world­view and the role of faith in her life. The juicy stuff will be her score-settling with the McCain aides and her lat­est broad­side against the national media. Also, the book does not include an index, so peo­ple will have to actu­ally read the thing to find out if they are in it.

    There’s an inter­est­ing story in a busi­ness pub­li­ca­tion that cov­ers the pub­lish­ing indus­try, which spec­u­lates Harper Collins paid her $5 mil­lion and the ghost­writer likely got about $200K. The story says the book has to be a mon­ster hit for HC to make back its advance money and sug­gests the only way to make that hap­pen may be to flood the Chris­t­ian and reli­gious book stores with copies. This was the strat­egy used for the “Left Behind” books. Ted Kennedy was paid $8 mil­lion for his book, but it has been sold to over­seas pub­lish­ers and is likely to turn a profit. The story was unsure of whether Palin would have the kind of inter­na­tional appeal of some­one named Kennedy.

    Finally, if you can stand it, look on YouTube for a chan­nel called Wis­con­si­nOne. Some­one tape-recorded the por­tion of Miss Iquitarod’s appear­ance before a right t life group where she is talk­ing about that dark con­spir­acy to move “In God We Trust” to the edge of the new dol­lar coins. (The deci­son was made in 2007 while W. was still wreak­ing havoc.) You may be pleased to know that the eardrum-shattering nasal­ness of her voice remains intact.

    Yes, I know, I used three snotty nick­names for this money-grubbing grifter. It felt good.

  38. Dave K. said on November 11th, 2009 at 8:07 pm

    I really can iden­tify with the father of the young sol­dier being mar­ried and return­ing to active duty. (Dorothy #3). My old­est daugh­ter and son-in-law are also active duty sol­diers, and SIL recently left for a 6 month tour in Iraq.

    Can any­one please clar­ify the end of the story for me? The father writes,”…and just like that he was gone”. Does he mean “gone” as in back to Afghanistan? (I have expe­ri­enced that painful depar­ture at the air­port many times and it never gets eas­ier.) Or does “gone” indi­cate killed in action? Pray­ing that is not what happened.

    Sin­cere thanks and prayers to all those who serve, or have served, our country.

  39. nancy said on November 11th, 2009 at 8:35 pm

    I really don’t get the pub­lish­ing busi­ness. If they have to do these high­wire acts just to get their advance back, what are they doing pay­ing these ridicu­lous advances in the first place? I know she wasn’t going to write on spec, and she was going to get some­thing, but what was her advance? Some­thing like $1.2 mil­lion? Why not pay half that and breathe a lit­tle eas­ier? If Zon­der­van wants to pay more, let ‘em. That’s who will be buy­ing this thing anyway.

  40. nancy said on November 11th, 2009 at 8:36 pm

    I call it Sarah’s Real Amer­ica Tour 09. She’ll be in Fort Wayne, too.

  41. brian stouder said on November 11th, 2009 at 9:42 pm

    This was a mar­velous thread; com­pli­ments to all, and espe­cially our Proprietress.

    But — since we’ve shifted to Palin’s impend­ing return to the Fort, I can tell you that while I’ll be skip­ping that event, this evening Grant and I went to a (well-attended) lec­ture at the down­town library, pre­sented by Jon Swerens of the News-Sentinel, titled “Long­ing for a City” and sub­ti­tled “Why we miss old Fort Wayne and what we should do about it.”

    That sen­tence struck me as provoca­tive enough to merit rolling down there, to see why he thinks “we miss old Fort Wayne” in the first place.

    The lec­ture was in sup­port of a fairly hand­some pic­ture book that he and sev­eral other N-S staffers put together (in fact the sec­ond such book) out of the exten­sive News-Sentinel pho­to­graphic files.

    Mr Swerens, who seems to be a very pleas­ant fel­low, put on a very nice power-point show fea­tur­ing many inter­est­ing pho­tos from the mid-1950’s, and at length he expressed the belief that zon­ing laws were as much (or more) to blame than any other sin­gle thing in the (unwel­come) changes that came to downtown.

    In amongst the pho­tos he had sev­eral of “the ele­va­tion” being con­structed (the ele­vated rail­way that goes right through down­town Fort Wayne, east to west), and which he blithely glided right past.

    Well, lots of older fel­las were in the crowd, and it DID seem to be a pleas­ant trip down mem­ory lane for many of them, as they called out addi­tional details in Swerens’ News-Sentinel pho­tos, and the show rolled mer­rily along.

    At the Q&A part of the show, I was tempted to raise my hand and ask Mr Swerens if he had ever read a really big, front-page fea­ture series that a very sharp reporter* that worked for the News-Sentinel wrote, look­ing back to when Fort Wayne made one of the largest mis­takes in it’s his­tory, and skipped the chance for a bargain-priced express­way through town (in con­junc­tion with that rail­way elevation)

    But — I was tired, and he was on a roll, and those were the good ol’ days, and none of it mat­ters any­more any­way, right?

    *the hus­band of the Pro­pri­etress of this place

    edit: and then we dis­cover, there’s this web­site that has a sort of odd vibe

    http://​www​.the​good​c​ity​.com/

  42. nancy said on November 11th, 2009 at 9:51 pm

    Zon­ing laws? Did he elab­o­rate? That’s a new one, and it makes me sus­pi­cious, because Jon is prob­a­bly the one per­son in the news­room who is as far right on the polit­i­cal spec­trum as Kevin Leininger, and I know zon­ing laws are one of those nutty lib­er­tar­ian buga­boos. I don’t get it, m’self, but then, I’m no libertarian.

    I’ve been to zoning-free Hous­ton, and I didn’t think it was that great.

  43. brian stouder said on November 11th, 2009 at 10:10 pm

    Well, he men­tioned that he lives in the Nebraska neigh­bor­hood (off west Main street, not far from me), and if a house burns down, it can­not be rebuilt because there’s not enough space between the exist­ing houses under cur­rent code(!); plus, in the old days, an ice cream shop (and other such small walk-in places) existed in his neigh­bor­hood. He placed a lot of stock in the virtue of busi­nesses you could walk to from home, and be amongst lots of other peo­ple doing the same thing (and again, if I was a mouthy crank, I’d have said you can’t throw a dead cat and not hit a gas sta­tion in this town, almost all of which offer all sorts of ice cream and pop and candy. For that mat­ter, I remem­ber walk­ing to a shoe-repair shop back in the day — and such busi­nesses as that don’t exist ANYWHERE any­more, but we digress!)

    I wasn’t really fol­low­ing his point on zon­ing, but that was still clearer than his exam­i­na­tion of the 4 main per­spec­tives and expec­ta­tions of cit­i­zens (such as egal­i­tar­i­an­ism, indi­vid­u­al­ity, and I for­get the other two) which drive the devel­ope­ment and design of a cityscape

    The point was that it’s not nos­tal­gia if you look at the pho­tos and say “I want things to be that way now”.…or something.

    Actu­ally, I don’t mean to be so snarky; it was an inter­est­ing pic­ture show, pre­sented by an engag­ing fel­low. More can be seen here:

    http://​acpho​toal​bum​.word​press​.com/

  44. Dexter said on November 11th, 2009 at 10:15 pm

    Here’s a blog with muchos fotos of Fort Wayne, taken from the Lin­coln Tower Bldg.
    http://​tinyurl​.com/​y​al4ml5

  45. nancy said on November 11th, 2009 at 10:16 pm

    Well, that’s pretty silly, then. Old neigh­bor­hoods should be grand­fa­thered in under their exist­ing plats.

    That said, I’d be stunned that any­one wants to build new con­struc­tion in Nebraska. Unless the neigh­bor­hood has really come up in the world.

    Dex­ter, that’s Bob Pence, an old friend of Alex’s. Nice guy.

  46. Dorothy said on November 11th, 2009 at 10:45 pm

    Dave K: I’m not 100% sure, but I got the impres­sion that “gone” just means he was no longer in his line of vision. In other words, on the plane and off to Afghanistan. If the sol­dier were dead, I’m pretty sure he’d be very clear about that in the article.

  47. Jolene said on November 11th, 2009 at 10:51 pm

    Dorothy: That was my take too – that the sol­dier had just got­ten on the plane and was gone.

    Brian: How was the Andrew Sul­li­van talk?

  48. crazycatlady said on November 12th, 2009 at 2:49 am

    Thanks, Nancy. I defy any­one to see the Viet­nam Memo­r­ial and not be moved. Try not to trace the let­ters of names on the cool black gran­ite with your fin­ger as you imag­ine the sad­ness fam­i­lies con­tinue to feel at their loss. Try not to see the tears on the cheeks of Vet­er­ans as they stand at that sacred place and remem­ber that which can never be erased. Try not to see the flags, the scraps of paper with writ­ten mes­sages to the dead, the trin­kets of a life gone too soon. Can’t be done.

  49. brian stouder said on November 12th, 2009 at 8:35 am

    Jolene, see the bot­tom of the last thread; but in a word, Dr Sul­li­van was inter­est­ing

  50. coozledad said on November 12th, 2009 at 8:52 am

    At what point does someone’s igno­rance of civics dis­qual­ify them from tele­vi­sion jour­nal­ism? I’d hate to be the ambu­lance chaser CNN will have to hire when they catch Wolf doing what­ever creepy ass thing it would take to get a garden-gnome– made-flesh off, but I under­stand why the law demands it.
    http://​tpm​livewire​.talk​ing​pointsmemo​.com/​2​0​0​9​/​1​1​/​w​o​l​f​-​b​l​i​t​z​e​r​-​q​u​e​s​i​t​o​n​s​-​h​o​w​-​h​a​s​a​n​s​-​l​a​w​y​e​r​-​c​a​n​-​r​e​p​r​e​s​e​n​t​-​s​o​m​e​o​n​e​-​a​c​c​u​s​e​d​-​o​f​-​m​a​s​s​-​m​u​r​d​e​r​.​p​h​p​?​r​e​f​=fpblg

  51. Jeff (the mild-mannered one) said on November 12th, 2009 at 9:06 am

    You can rebuild, you just have to get a vari­ance. Same thing if there’s a zoned ten foot set­back in your neigh­bor­hood, and your entire west wall is four feet from the prop­erty line, and you want to build a room onto the back fol­low­ing the line of the house. Even if the new room doesn’t push back into the set­back zone, you have to get a vari­ance for the wall exten­sion, because it’s within the ten foot.

    Anti-zoning folk love to say “you can’t” when the actual fact is “you can, but now you have to tag sec­ond base on your way around the field.” They just don’t want to do that.

  52. Jeff (the mild-mannered one) said on November 12th, 2009 at 9:14 am

    Sarah Palin didn’t put an index in her book, and DC insid­ers are wail­ing — “waaaa, waaaaa, i’m gonna have to have a staffer *read* the dang thing now to find out if i’m in it!”

    Snork.

  53. Julie Robinson said on November 12th, 2009 at 9:17 am

    I’ve been to no-zoning Florida, and I did not enjoy all the busi­nesses peo­ple were run­ning out of their garages at all hours of the night. With their loud cus­tomers, louder swear­ing, and and even louder music, the auto repair place 20 feet from the bed­room win­dow at my sister’s place seri­ously impeded my sleep and cranked up my crank­i­ness. Zon­ing is a good thing.

    My late father-in-law was a dreamer and vision­ary like his son and he had lob­bied for that high­way. Thought it was a huge mis­take to not build it.

    My aunt and uncle in Iowa still live in the fifties. It’s a won­der­ful place if you are white, male, and wealthy. Life today is much less pow­er­ful and more threat­en­ing for Leininger, Swerens, and their ilk, what with women and peo­ple of color sur­round­ing them. No won­der they want to turn the clock back.

  54. nancy said on November 12th, 2009 at 9:24 am

    Don’t get me wrong — Jon’s an OK guy, and, far more than Kevin, gen­er­ally doesn’t expect oth­ers to share, or lis­ten to, his views. He’s quiet, keeps his head down, and works hard.

    It’s just…zoning? Huh? I think most of us would con­sider rea­son­able zon­ing restric­tions a good thing. But Leo Mor­ris, also my for­mer N-S col­league, is also one of those who believes zon­ing con­sti­tutes an infringe­ment on per­sonal lib­erty. I just don’t get it. One of the things about old cities that I don’t like is how fac­to­ries and such are located in res­i­den­tial neigh­bor­hoods. There was a rea­son for it once upon a time — in fact, I believe gen­er­ally the neigh­bor­hood came after the fac­tory — but their time has passed. (As any­one cursed enough to own a house next to the Packard plant would surely agree.)

  55. brian stouder said on November 12th, 2009 at 9:36 am

    It’s a won­der­ful place if you are white, male, and wealthy

    ding ding ding ding!!!!

    Actu­ally, the “wealthy” part would be good in any era, but indeed — the way things were ‘back then’, and the big social trans­for­ma­tion from then to now are sim­ply inseper­a­ble. Swerens would agree with that much, I think, but one won­ders what he would have to say about that express­way that was never built; about all those fam­i­lies who weren’t white who never got a buy-out, and who never got dis­placed from down­town, and who there­fore didn’t get the oppor­tu­nity to move else­where in Fort Wayne, where the (mostly white) IH and Tokheim and ITT and Frue­hauf work­ers (etc) lived.

    etcetera

    edit: I for­got one ‘dog whis­tle’ moment in Mr Swerens’ pre­sen­ta­tion, wherein he related a story he’d read some­where, and which struck him as insight­ful. The sup­po­si­tion regarded the soci­etal dif­fer­ence between 1900 to 1950, as com­pared to the dif­fer­ence from 1950 to 2000; the idea was that if a man was mag­i­cally trans­ported from the circa-1900 city street to the 1950 city street — he’d be taken aback by the cars and trucks (instead of horse-drawn car­riages), but if he saw a lady and tipped his hat, or held a door open for her, he’d be right in-step.

    But, if a man was mag­i­cally trans­ported from the 1950 street to the 2000 street, he’d offend one per­son after the next with the things he’d be liable to say or do.

    Sev­eral folks nod­ded at that; my chin dropped a lit­tle, but while I pon­dered what he was try­ing to say the talk pro­ceeded on, so I have no idea how that changed our city-scape, or whether this was really thought to be the city we want to go back to, or what.…(sorry!)